Former Blackout Artist

“Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.” Proverbs 27:6

We often seek out friends who are kind, supportive, and affirming. But true friendship goes beyond just making us feel good; it also involves being honest, even when the truth hurts.

In the passage above, Solomon reminds us that a true friend will sometimes say things to us that we don’t want to hear, but need to. These “wounds” aren’t meant to harm us, but to encourage us, challenge us spiritually, and deter us from wrongdoing.

Take a moment today to appreciate the friends in your life who are willing to speak truth to you, even when it stings. Recognize their courage and the love that motivates their honesty. And when you find yourself on the receiving end of a tough conversation, remember that these “wounds” are meant to heal and refine you, drawing you closer to the person God wants you to be.