“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”
Proverbs 16:9
Have you ever been turned down for a job? Or maybe applied for a bank loan and was denied? Perhaps you didn’t get into the school that you desperately wanted to attend, or maybe you came up with a great idea at work that your boss didn’t think too much of.
At some point most of us have probably felt the sting of rejection. And it’s really hard sometimes (at least for me) to not take it personally. There’s a mental tape that starts running in my mind. I’m not talented enough. I’m not trustworthy enough. I’m not smart enough. I’m not good enough. I foolishly allow my feelings to become facts, and down the rabbit hole I go. My confidence is shattered, and then eventually I start blaming God. That new job could’ve helped me get out of debt! That loan would’ve helped me get a more reliable car that doesn’t break down every three months! What more must I do to catch a break, God?!
You see, my problem isn’t that I’m not talented enough, trustworthy enough, smart enough, or good enough. No, my problem is that I care more about my plans than I care about God’s purpose for my life. It’s not about “not catching a break.” It’s that I’m refusing to trust God’s ultimate authority in the matter. The real question worth asking is to myself: Have I prayed and asked God if this is what He wants me to do?
Proverbs 16:9 is a humbling reminder that while we may think we know the best path for our lives, it’s God who ultimately directs our steps. Rejection, disappointment, or closed doors don’t mean we’ve failed – they mean God has something better in store, even if we can’t see it yet.
Paul tells us in Romans 8:28, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” God doesn’t waste anything… not the pain, nor the rejection, nor the detours. He weaves it all together for His glory and our ultimate good.
The next time you face rejection or frustration, take a minute and ask yourself, “Am I trusting my plans more than God’s purpose?” Surrendering to God’s authority isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. His plan is bigger, better, and more beautiful than anything we could ever imagine.
Former Blackout Artist 